Weddings

The Pyramids Were The Spectacular Backdrop To This Couple’s Traditional Indian Wedding

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NAMAN VERMA

The anecdote is a testament to Monica and Vivek’s deftness in navigating complex logistics, but the preparations involved in the engagement were but a molehill next to the mountain of bureaucracy that the wedding itself proffered.

The formalities began on a simpler note in London with an intimate civil ceremony at the Old Marylebone Town Hall in the company of close family and friends. In early September, though, it was off to Egypt, where Monica and Vivek staged “a three-day wedding experience across Sofitel Cairo El Gezirah, Dahab Island Palace, and finally, the Great Pyramids of Giza,” the bride explains. “Saying it aloud still feels unreal!”

After four trips to Cairo in the run-up to the celebrations, “meeting planners, caterers, architects and government officials,” the scene was set for a breathtaking traditional Indian wedding. Proceedings opened with a haldi – “a traditional pre-wedding ceremony where family and friends apply a herbal turmeric paste to the bride and groom’s skin to bless them with good luck, radiance and protection” – held at the Sofitel Cairo El Gezirah. “It was led by our family priest. The atmosphere was joyful and light-hearted. By the end, we were both completely covered in turmeric and surrounded by love.”

For the traditional Hindu wedding ceremony, staged at the Dahab Island Palace – a formal regal residence perched on an islet in the Nile – Monica was elegantly swathed in a red raw silk bridal lehenga by Indian occasionwear label Dolly J, while Vivek sported “a custom white sherwani designed in Delhi’s Khan Market, based on his own sketches. He later changed into a classic tuxedo from Huntsman on Savile Row,” reflecting the couple’s desire to ensure that “their looks subtly reflected [their] British, Indian and Egyptian influences,” Monica says. “We sourced pieces from designers in London, Cairo and Delhi, while all jewellery was custom-made by Vivek’s father – a fifth-generation jeweller.”

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After 180 guests had crossed the Nile by boat to reach the stately venue – the private palace of Prince Naguib, a family friend and descendant of Egypt’s former royal family – “a traditional Egyptian drummer set the beat as guests danced from the pier to the palace gardens where the ceremony took place under an Indian mandap with pink flowy drapes and fragrant flowers decorating it,” shares Monica. The ceremony itself was overseen by the pair’s family priest, “ensuring the ceremony felt deeply personal and spiritually grounded amid the grandeur of the palace grounds,” and was followed by a dinner in an Italianate courtyard, framed by the palace’s rose-hued walls and the twinkle of decadently strewn fairy lights. “We ended the night dancing under the stars in the palace gardens,” Monica reminisces. “It truly felt like a fairytale.”

The real pinch-me moment, though, came the next day. As the sun set over the Pyramids of Giza, the wedding party passed through a private gate that bypassed the typical tourist trail to a venue custom built for the occasion on the Giza Plateau. Beneath the gaze of the Great Sphinx, guests discovered a venue that “blended into the natural desert palette, with sand and clay tones as the colour scheme to honour the surroundings,” Monica says. “We had multiple sketches and 3D models printed during the planning process, and after gaining approvals from the Ministry and our architects, we decided on a stunning circular design, adorned with dried pampas grass and locally crafted clay pots.”

At the entrance, the wedding party was greeted by a sign bearing their initials written in Hindi, symbolising their Indian roots, while the playlist and style reflected the pair’s British upbringing. After a first dance to a fusion of Ben E King’s “Stand By Me” and a traditional Indian love song, friends and family performed surprise choreographed dances. After heartfelt speeches, a dinner comprising a mix of Indian, Egyptian and British cuisine was rustled up by The Cookery Co and served at the foot of the world-famous statue.

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“As ‘What a Wonderful World’ played, guests released paper lanterns into the desert sky,” Monica says. “It was a pitch-black night with only the lanterns, Sphinx and Pyramids glowing in the distance. This moment was breathtaking and a highlight for both of us – seeing everyone take part together was emotional and filled us with an overwhelming sense of gratitude. It was the perfect finale and a moment we knew we’d never forget.”

Naturally, Monica and Vivek’s outfits emulated this grandeur. The bride dazzled in a corseted lehenga, again by Dolly J, sourced from Pernia’s pop-up in Mayfair, while the groom wore a dapper black sherwani, styled with his grandad’s gold and black pashmina stole.

Across the celebrations, members of the happy couple’s wedding party naturally dressed to the nines, too. For the opening haldi, “guests wore a mix of sunset yellows and soft whites, blending Western silhouettes with Indian elegance,” Monica says. “They came in linen co-ords, embroidered kurtas, silk saris and flowing dresses that caught the morning light.” For the wedding ceremony the next day, “the palette softened to pastels – blush, mint and powder blue – which complemented the pink and yellow walls of the palace,” while the reception at the world wonder prompted all-out “evening glamour: women in dark couture gowns or opulent Indian ensembles, men in black tuxedos. The juxtaposition of Indian silhouettes and British formality created a striking East-meets-West aesthetic.”

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While the events’ splendour speaks through the images seen here, the fairytale finale took an unfathomable amount of preparation. “Planning a multi-day celebration at a world wonder meant there was no existing blueprint,” says Monica, noting that her and Vivek were only the third couple to ever marry at the world heritage site – and the first of Indian heritage. “Every element – from design to logistics – had to be conceptualised from scratch, and there were strict government restrictions. We couldn’t have fire, a wedding cake, or even a bridal veil. Every detail required approval from the Ministry of Tourism and Antiquities, ensuring the location’s sanctity was honoured.”

What’s more, the Pyramids’ status as an active tourist site meant that site preparations could only take place over night. “For 10 nights, once the plateau closed at 6pm, our team entered to work until sunrise – constructing everything from stages and kitchens to plumbing directly on the desert sand.” Indeed, this was the sort of function that required a team of planners with the proven know-how, prompting Monica and Vivek to call upon the expertise of The Better Co.

Speaking of otherworldly locations, the couple’s penchant for breathtaking backdrops carried over into their honeymoon on the French Polynesian island of Bora Bora – “a well-earned rest after months of planning!” – and has even set the tone for their anniversary celebrations to come. “Vivek is already planning our five-year anniversary at the Great Wall of China,” Monica says. “We want to celebrate every five years at a new world wonder!” What a wonderful world, indeed.